I have been writing for as long as I can remember. As a child, I wrote poems and stories before I went to bed. As a teen and young adult, I wrote in a journal, but it wasn’t until I first became a mother that I wrote for publication. I felt all this love and joy emanating from within and it prompted me to write an essay. I submitted it to my local newspaper’s weekly column titled, "The Women’s Forum," and right then and there a writing junkie was hooked. I went on to publish many more essays on women’s concerns, as well as political issues for the same newspaper. I felt like I was combining my love of writing with my college degree in sociology whenever I wrote essays about the human condition. Similarly, I feel that way now with the start of this book about marriage.
The majority of my writing for children and adults has been non-fiction, though I have had fiction stories published, as well as a myriad of poetry. My writing credits include many informative articles in MetroKids Magazine, Byline, New Moon Magazine, Housewife Writer’s Forum, Aandazz Magazine, On The Line Magazine, as well as various newspapers and journals. I also had a monthly column in my local town focusing on parenting. Some of my credits writing for children include Pockets, Hopscotch For Girls, and WeeOnesMag.com. One of my articles written for Hopscotch was purchased for an educational science journal that is available online and in print. I am currently finishing a Young Adult novel and, at some point, will be searching for a publishing home for it. Additionally, I worked for many years at a YMCA researching and writing to obtain government grants, writing and editing brochures, bios for volunteers, press releases, and committee reports.
Having been married twice, I feel compelled to write this book with my dear friend and writing companion, Phyllis. This idea has been growing inside both of us for 20 years and needs to come out. Women of all ages will see themselves here and have a voice. Marriage has been, and still is, a time honored tradition, but it is not for everyone and it shouldn’t be. Research indicates that men receive the most benefits from marriage, which is why we feel women must be smart in choosing whether to marry and whom to marry.